My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and he has started pressuring me for sex. I don’t think I’m ready and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to lose him.
I don’t know how old you are, but no matter what age, a guy should NEVER be pressuring a girl for sex. If you aren’t ready, wait. There’s not specific age, but I’d rather you wait until you are 18, or later. I may not seem like a big thing, but there are repercussions for your actions. If you aren’t ready to take care of a baby, don’t do it. Most importantly, if I guy isn’t willing to wait, he doesn’t really care about you. That may not be what you want to hear, but it really is true. Remember, when and if you decide you are ready, I can’t stress enough the need for protection. If I guy suggests doing it without protection, run the other way!
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